Undoubtedly, the number one question we receive from individuals researching their Highlander ancestry is, are there marriage records available for British soldiers who served during the Seven Years' War in North America? The simple answer is yes and no. Researchers will have far better success if their soldiers married in Scotland, rather than expecting to locate a marriage record in Quebec, Canada, before 1764. If you have confirmation of a marriage that occurred during the war, we would love to hear from you.
Researching my family's missing marriage document c.1761 in Quebec has been quite a daunting task, and it is evident others also share in my same predicament. Our Highlander ancestor, Private William Campbell (1731-1811; parents unknown), a soldier in Colonel Fraser's 78th Regiment, is purported to have married Marie Josephte Chartier (1732-1799; the proven daughter of Louis Chartier and Marie-Madeleine Lefevbre) either near the town of Berthier, which was established as regimental headquarters, or a few miles south near Deschambault-Grondines where their first child Marie was baptized in November 1761. In fact young Marie's baptismal entry in the parish records of Saint-Joseph-de-Deschambault even states: "...of the legitimate marriage of..." William and a small contingency of his battalion mates were stationed at Deschambault supporting a few companies of the 43rd Foot, both providing guard should any of the French begin traversing up the St. Lawrence River. However, 24 years later and still no record of a marriage has been uncovered. And after conversing with other researchers, I began to see a similar pattern emerge: there seems to be an archival black hole, so to speak, for British soldiers' marriage records between 1757-1763, in the various archives and parishes in/around Quebec.
I recall reading that British military leadership excluded the destruction of parishes during the war [https://heritage.canadiana.ca/view/oocihm.lac_reel_c369/389]. And although fires were deliberately set during the conflict to other buildings and farmhouses on both sides of the St. Lawrence River, places of worship, hospitals, and strategic garrisons were off-limits. Collateral damage, however, was and still remains a fact of war. Of course, natural disasters for the past few hundred years certainly could have also played a part in the missing records, too. Either way, I found this as both an anomaly and an opportunity to explore further
The General's Orders [1]
Through my research in the Quebec Archives, one particular contemporary document was discovered, written in 1759 by General George Townshend, referencing General Jeffery Amherst, successor to General James Wolfe as commander of the British after he fell on the Plains of Abraham battlefield a few weeks earlier, on 13 September. Located within Townshend's Orderly book, this document appears to account for missing North American marriage records:
Quebec, 6 October 1759
"The General desires that the Commanding Officers of Regts. will not suffer their men to mary [sic] with the French."
In other words, senior leadership clearly established that British soldiers were forbidden from engaging in matrimony with the French Canadians during the conflict.
Religion
British soldiers of the Seven Years' War were primarily of the Protestant faith. Of the specific criteria outlined in the Recruiting Act, 1756-7 qualifying an individual for enlistment in the army, one particular bullet prohibited 'known Papists' from joining. Unlike their Irish counterparts, who were required upon enlistment to submit religious certificates attesting to their faith, [2] we've not uncovered supporting evidence requiring Scottish soldiers to provide the same documentation.
French-Canadians were primarily of the Roman Catholic faith. And while each religion recognizes and adheres to its practicing values, King George II did not recognize Roman Catholics during the war. Albeit we can only speculate his thoughts of the Catholic religion and its supporting people, General James Murray, a British soldier and governor of Quebec in 1760-68, in the summer of 1763, made his thoughts quite clear of the local inhabitants. In a September 1763 letter to General Amherst, Murray wrote: "...The present method of Cantoning the Troops in a new Conquer'd country, the Inhabitants of which, are of a different Religion from the Conquerors, and are of all the People upon the Earth the most ignorant, Superstitious, and Bigotted, consequently the most influenced by the Priesthood, seems to me very imprudent..." [3]
As it was clear King George II restricted his men in North America from marrying the local Quebecoise for many reasons (religion played a part, but the king also feared desertion through debauchery), the marriage order was rescinded in the summer of 1763, and the Roman Catholic religion was officially recognized in preparation for a new government. It was ordered in December 1763 that all public places of worship display a notice including a table of marriages.
Without Benefit of Clergy
In 2001, Marie Fraser of the Clan Fraser Society of Canada authored an article addressing the potential for marriages between British soldiers and local French ladies during the Seven Years' War. The following snippet appears in the article.
Some of these Fraser Highlanders turned to farming and raising a family in a strange land. It was inevitable that romances blossomed. However these conquering heroes faced a more formidable opponent in the form of the local priest, and his bishop, who were unwilling to solemnize marriages involving a Protestant groom. In Quebec in the 1760s and 1770s, many of the Scottish soldiers and their Roman Catholic brides lived without benefit of clergy, although their children were baptized, albeit in many cases the entry by the local priest noted that the child was illegitimate. Also, there were very few Protestant clergy in the country, and the women and their families would probably have been very unhappy about marrying in a Protestant church. Those who could afford to do so, had a marriage contract drawn up by the local notary as a means of legalizing their union. [Fraser, Marie (2005). 'The Old 78th Regiment of Foot'.
https://web.archive.org/web/20061021041126/http://clanfraser.ca/78th.htm. Accessed 17 April 2023].
The Military Wedding
The following article first appeared on the Library and Archives Canada website and provides insight into "unofficial marriages" which may have been practiced among the British regiments. "Leaping over the sword" has its roots in ancient times and was said to constitute a military marriage.
When a relationship became serious enough, a form of wedding called "leaping over the sword" took place. In this ancient custom, the company would gather around a sword on the floor, in front of which stood the couple, hand-in-hand. A corporal or sergeant acting as the clergyman would order, "Leap, rogue, and jump, whore, and then you are married for evermore." The happy couple would jump over the sword hand-in-hand as the drum beat. From this moment, they were considered man and wife. The event was sometimes followed by a "hoisting," a ceremonial burial of bachelorhood ending in a small parade during which the groom was carried by two of his mates, preceded by a fife and drum playing "The Cuckold's March."
In principle, every soldier had to request official permission to marry. Very few did so, however, because the authorities did not look favourably upon their soldiers marrying. Not until the 1830s did they find a connection between the low desertion rate among married soldiers and the stabilizing influence of their wives. But even in 1863, after the social reforms had been introduced in the mid-nineteenth century, only eight percent of soldiers sent overseas were formally married. Given the many problems involved, it would appear that the vast majority preferred to remain single [http://www.cmhg-phmc.gc.ca/cmh-pmc/page-519-eng.aspx. Accessed 7 July 2023].
Marriage Records
The following is a list of transcribed marriage entries for soldiers that served in the 78th Regiment. Unless otherwise noted, the final disposition of each soldier has not been verified. Men may have transferred to other military regiments, suffered as a casualty of war, discharged in North America, or returned to Scotland at the end of their enlistment. And while approximately 50 Quebec marriage records for men who served in the 78th Foot have been recorded in the book entitled, Les premieres familles anglo-canadiennes issues des marriages mixtes au Quebec (Marcel Fournier, 2001), further analysis of each record needs to be performed to ensure its accuracy. Records will be added to this list upon verification.
It should be noted a predetermined number of women were authorized to accompany their husbands to North America and were instrumental in performing camp duties for the regiment, which would have included laundry, cooking, sewing, and caring for the children.
Anderson
n.p; n.d.
On October 3rd, 1757, the unnamed spouse of John Anderson is mentioned as having received £5 at Halifax, Nova Scotia, "for his [her husband's] use till clearing." [NAS, GD125-22-17-0003].
Cameron
The marriage contract between Thomas Cameron and Francoise Roy was drawn up by Jean-Claude Panet, Quebec notary, on 3 July 1772; the marriage occurred days later on 6 July 1772 at Saint Vallier, Bellechasse, Quebec, Canada. Although the contract does not support service in the 78th Regiment (1757-1763), that information is contained in his application for Crown land filed with the Quebec government on 26 August 1801. [Notarial records of Jean-Claude Panet housed at BAnQ, Montreal, Canada; LAC, Lower Canada Land Papers, RG 1 L 3L Vol. 54, pp. 27436-27440].
Chisholm
Kilmorack, Inverness, Scotland
October, 28th, 1766
There were married Duncan Chisholm in Craigscorie late Soldier in Coll Frasers Regt & [...] Donegal in Craigscorie. [Parish registers for Kilmorack, 1764-1854. FHL, SLC, Utah, Microfilm 007907499, image 702].
Ferguson
County Lanarkshire, Scotland
May 1st, 1757
Daniel Ferguson Soldier in Collonel Frazers Battalion & Janet McAula L[awful] D[aughter] of the deceas'd Thos. McAula Hammerman in Glasgow. [Old parochial registers for Glasgow, 1612-1854. FHL, SLC, Utah, Microfilm 008075826, p. 90].
Note: Daniel and Donald are sometimes, but not always, interchangeable in Scotland, because Domhnall, the Gaelic version of Donald, may be Anglicised as Daniel.
Forbes
Kilmorack, Inverness, Scotland
January 31st, 1764
Hugh Forbes alias Grieasich in Aiges Soldier in Coll Fraser's Regt married to Ann Fraser in [...]. [Parish registers for Kilmorack, 1764-1854. FHL, SLC, Utah, Microfilm 007907499, image 701].
Fraser
Kilmorack, Inverness, Scotland
July 28, 1764
There was married at Beauly William Fraser late of Coll. Frasers Regmt. with [...] Hutchinson daughter of Alexr. Hutchinson there. [Parish registers for Kilmorack, 1764-1854. FHL, SLC, Utah, Microfilm 007907599, image 702].
Ganstone
Edinburgh, Midlothian, Scotland
January 13, 1764
William Ganstone late Soldier in Colonel Frazers Regiment of foot and Helen Grant/daur. to Donald Grant Blacksmith in PiterHead / both indwellers in Canongate gave up their names to be proclaimed in order to marriage. [Parish registers of Cannongate Church, Edinburgh, 1564-1872. FHL, SLC, Utah, Microfilm 7908857, image 630].
Note: In 1763, he is recorded as William Ganson in Captain John Nairn's Company.
Gillies
County Lanarkshire, Scotland
April 17, 1757
Neill Gillies Soldier in Collonel Frazers Battalion & Margt. Brown Residg. in Blantire. [Old parochial registers for Glasgow, 1612-1854. FHL, SLC, Utah, Microfilm 008075826, p. 90].
MacArthur
n.p; n.d.
On October 3rd, 1757, the unnamed spouse of Alexander MacArthur is mentioned as having received £5 at Halifax, Nova Scotia, "for his [her husband's] use till clearing." [NAS, GD125-22-17-0003].
McAndrew
Kilmorack, Inverness, Scotland
June 12, 1764
There was married William Fraser McAndrew late Soldier in Coll. Frasers Regt. in Annat with Ann [?] Fraser the daughter to Thos. Mcfarqhar in Killmorack. [Parish registers for Kilmorack, 1764-1854. FHL, SLC, Utah, Microfilm 007907499, image 702].
McIntire
County Lanarkshire, Scotland
April 17, 1757
Patrick McIntire Soldier in Collonel Frazers Battalion & Christian Bell Residg. in Glasgow. [Old parochial registers for Glasgow, 1612-1854. FHL, SLC, Utah, Microfilm 008075826, p. 90].
McLean
County Lanarkshire, Scotland
April 29, 1757
John McLean Surgeon of Collonel Frazers highland Battalion & Agnes Lang L[awful] D[aughter] of the deceas'd John Lang Mercht in Glasgow irregularly married & this day judicially adhered to before the South west session. [Old parochial registers for Glasgow, 1612-1854. FHL, SLC, Utah, Microfilm 008075826, p. 90].
Note: Appointed regimental surgeon 12 January 1757; the absent officer's list indicates "John MacLean, Surgeon, gone to England 20 October 1761 by leave of General Amherst." [Marie Fraser, Clan Fraser Society, Toronto, 2001].
McPherson
County Lanarkshire, Scotland
November 7, 1757
James McPherson Sergeant in Collonell Frazers Regiment & Mary Cameron Residg. in Glasgow. [Old parochial registers for Glasgow, 1612-1854. FHL, SLC, Utah, Microfilm 008075826, p. 96].
McRae
County Lanarkshire, Scotland
May 8, 1757
Hugh McRae Soldier in Collonel Frazers Battalion & Janet McDonald along with said Battalion. [Old parochial registers for Glasgow, 1612-1854. FHL, SLC, Utah, Microfilm 008075826, p. 90].
County Lanarkshire, Scotland
October 16, 1757
John McRae Soldier in Collonel Frazers Regiment & Isobel Campbell in the parish of Eastwood. [Old parochial registers for Glasgow, 1612-1854. FHL, SLC, Utah, Microfilm 008075826, p. 96].
Munro
Phillipe Munro, b. 1736; de Kilmour, province de Ross, Ecosse, and Charlotte Girard, married 1772; Soldat du 78e regiment ecossais, en 1757, au siege de Quebec. Il s'etablit a St-Charles-Boyer [Tanguay, Dictionaire Genealogique Des Familles Canadiennes, vol. 6, p.129].
Ross
County Lanarkshire, Scotland
October 16, 1757
John Ross Soldier in Collonel Frazers Regiment & Katharine McKinzie both in Glasgow. [Old parochial registers for Glasgow, 1612-1854. FHL, SLC, Utah, Microfilm 008075826, p. 96].
Sutherland
County Inverness-shire, Scotland
April 9, 1757
Marriage contracted March 1757. James Sutherland of Col. Fraser's Regimt. & Janet Polson. [Parish registers for Inverness, 1602-1854. FHL, SLC, Utah, Microfilm 007907493, p. 61].
Wilkinson
Quebec, Canada
c.1760-63; [request for marriage license]
"Sir, please grant a License to Donald Wilkinson Soldier in the 78th Regiment to marry as He has no time to be proclaimed being obliged to go to Quebec in a few days P[lease] oblige Sir." [signed] John Campbell, Majr. 78th Regt. [Morphy Auctions online brochure, “French & Indian War Miscellany: Four (4) Military Documents and Letters,” Edged Weapons, Armor, & Militaria, Nov. 7-8, 2018, p.138. https://bit.ly/3ve11J5. Acc: November 17, 2019].
Note: Although the final disposition of Wilkinson's Quebec marriage license request remains unknown, he married Ann Tillow on 13 March 1761, at the Reformed Dutch Church, New Amsterdam, New York [Names of Persons for Whom Marriage Licenses were issued by the Secretary of the Province of New York Previous to 1784, Gideon Tucker, secretary of state, Albany, 1860; New Amsterdam Church Marriages 1750-1801].
Williamson
County Inverness-shire, Scotland
March 4, 1757
Marriage contracted February 1757. William Williamson of Col. Fraser's Regimt. & Margaret McGillvray. [Parish registers for Inverness, 1602-1854. FHL, SLC, Utah, Microfilm 007907493, p. 61].
Note: In May 1762, Private Williamson and his spouse Margaret are found serving in Captain Simon Fraser's Company, garrisoned on the North Shore of Quebec's St. Lawrence River [TNA,T1/414].
Sources:
1. Northcliffe Collection: Series 1: Robert Monckton Papers. LAC, Microfilm C-369.
2. William Congreve to Wilmot, 10 March 1757. T3019/3122, PRO, Ireland.
3. Murray to Amherst, 27 August 1763. LAC, W.O. 34, vol. 2, no. 101.
© Jeffrey Campbell, Fraser's 78th Regiment of Foot, 2021.
This article was last updated on 4 April 2024.